Read: John 15:15
The stats are undeniable: if you want to live a long and healthy life, strong relationships are key. Studies repeatedly show that people with meaningful connections experience lower stress levels, better mental health, and even greater longevity. Our need for connection isn’t just emotional—it’s woven into our very biology. But while relationships with family and friends can deeply enrich our lives, they also point to an even greater truth: we were made for connection with God.
Jesus’ life and words reveal that God is not distant or indifferent—He’s relational and deeply personal. He didn’t simply preach from afar; He walked, ate, and lived life with His disciples. He called them friends, investing deeply in their lives. This was no surface-level connection; it was intentional, sacrificial, and life-changing.
In our world of digital connections and surface-level friendships, Jesus’ relational approach stands out. He prioritized spending time with those He loved, whether it was sharing meals, teaching in intimate settings, or comforting them in their moments of doubt and fear. Even in His final moments on the cross, Jesus demonstrated His relational nature by entrusting the care of His mother to His disciple John. Relationships mattered to Him until the very end.
This truth changes everything: God doesn’t want a transactional relationship with us; He wants a transformational one. He doesn’t watch us from afar but calls us into a family where we are fully known and fully loved. He calls us His friends. This is a uniquely Christian truth—our God is deeply involved in our lives, and He longs for us to know Him intimately.
Reflection Questions:
- In what ways do you see God pursuing a personal relationship with you?
- How can you grow deeper in your relationship with God today?
- What steps can you take to invest in the relationships God has placed in your life?