Your Heart Is Dumb

I wanna love somebody, but I don’t know how. — from Sucker’s Prayer by The Decemberists When I was 6, my parents divorced. As a result, I didn’t really grow up with an example of what a loving relationship was supposed to look like. Everything...

Timing Is Important

My two kids are hilarious, and not in a kids-say-the-darndest-things sort of way. My two teenagers are quick-witted, genuinely funny people. My 16-year-old daughter is always cracking jokes. And when we’re just sitting around the house, she keeps us in stitches....

Why Rahab?

If you’ve never read the story of Rahab (Joshua 2), you should check it out. Here’s my attempt at a CliffsNotes[1] version: Joshua sent a couple of spies on a recon mission into the Canaanite city of Jericho. Their presence was discovered, but a Canaanite...

Asking for Help

Over the past several months, I have realized two very important truths about myself: I need help. I never ask for help. As you can imagine, these two ideas do not play well together. So when I say, “I need help,” what do I mean? In what areas of my life...

A New Purpose

In Sunday’s sermon, we learned that, for those of us in Christ, three things are true: We have been made new. We have been completely forgiven. We have been given a new message and a new purpose. I totally get the first two on the list. I may need the occasional...

You Can’t Fight Your Nature

Nearly 11 years ago, we adopted Parker the Wonderdog when he was just a three-month-old puppy. As it turns out, he is a natural-born hunter. If you’re a bug, mouse, possum or rabbit, I don’t recommend hanging out in our back yard, because Parker will chase...